Never be part of a clique

In order to have a clique, you must exclude certain people. And to feel excluded hurts deeply. David experienced it: ‘The one who shared my food, has turned against me.’ (Psalm 41:9 NLT) Cliques are made up of weak people who are afraid to be different. They believe...

Healthy compromise

Read these Scriptures: ‘Pursue peace with all people.’ (Hebrews 12:14 NKJV) ‘The wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, willing to yield… the fruit of righteousness is sown in peace by those who make peace.’ (James 3:17–18 NKJV) ‘He who would...

Eight principles to live by

People who set goals accomplish much more than people of equal education and ability who don't. With that in mind, build these eight principles into your life. (1) Decide what you want. But first consult God. 'Many are the plans in a person's heart, but...

Your stage and your standing

John says, ‘I am writing to you, dear children, because your sins have been forgiven on account of His name.’ (1 John 2:12 NIV) When you’re born again, the only thing you know is that your sins are forgiven and you’re in right standing with God. But you have a lot...

Communicate with your mate

Ever notice when you’re dating somebody, you can talk effortlessly for hours, but if you have been married a while, unless you work at it, conversation can become superficial and even lead to disagreements? The Bible says, ‘Be willing to listen and slow to speak.’...